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Birthday; Life, Death, and a Little Growing Up/Getting Older.

Yesterday, my niece wanted a tea party, so we went over there for a few hours. She’s taken to a new habit. When she gets in trouble, she closes her eyes and breathes quietly as though she’s disappeared or something. I took a vid with my phone when she was in trouble one time. She put her face down on the couch and pretended she wasn’t seen.

I’m starting to ponder the gluten free/lactose free diet again to see if it makes a difference on how I feel. I’m really tired of constant nausea in my life. It’s one of the main factors of my “hermit” characteristic.

Today I turn 27.

My birthday morning consisted of an emergency trip to the animal hospital.
Sometime in the night Fonz did SOMETHING to his right elbow. We believe he tried to jump on the bed and either got caught or fell. He screeched and cried. I was still out and grabbed a cab home from midtown to a limping dog. He wouldn’t put his paw down or let me touch it so I cuddled him in bed and went to sleep to see how he would be in the morning.

I got up around 9am after little sleep to see how he was. He was still the same so my father suggested we take him over to the animal emergency. I wasn’t sure because Fonz is a baby and overreacts but we went anyway.

We discovered his popped out ligaments in his back knees and a sprained elbow to which he was given painkillers for the day and ordered to stay level for a week, no jumping no climbing. He is home resting comfortably.

I’ve been to the animal hospital many times before and i’ve been on my birthday in the past but NEVER have I seen what I did this morning. I know these things happen, but it was just a lot at once for me to see.

One man came in while we were waiting. He was there to pick up the remains of his cat. They brought him the little box, and he was understandably upset. Said nice things about the vets there and left. Later on I came out of the room with Fonz to 6 big, italian looking guys in the waiting room all red eyed. I wasn’t sure what the deal was, but I sat down to wait for the bill. My father and I had to wait until these guys were cleared out before we could pay up. So we sat and just watched.

The first guy was just picking up lab samples, so he left first. The next were trio of men who had brought a larger dog, I assume Rotweiler. As far as I could understand, this dog belonged to someone else (maybe a brother) who was on vacation. The dog had died this morning and they needed to “store” him in the morgue until the guy came back. They all headed out to get a stretcher for the dog.

Then there were two guys, father and son, and they were bringing in their 12 year old dog who was dead. The son was in his mid 20s or so crying in the corner. They eventually both carried in a bloody sheet filled with dead doberman and raced out to burst into tears outside. It was almost horrifying, although I know these things happen.

There was then another woman who came in to pick up the remains of her dog.

This afternoon I’m going to go to the mall with my niece and brother who invited me out with them. Then I’m going to take a nap because I’m exhausted. Finally I’m going to have dinner with my whole family to “celebrate” my birthday. I KNOW the day can only get better from what happened this morning!

Year End Review 2009.

Ok, so I had an entire entry posted about 2009. It had questions and I had answers. It was informative and eventful. Well, it looks like I deleted half of it before posting and had no draft sent.

Ten years ago I was 16 and I spent New Years with my then boyfriend, Ed (or Stacy as I think he goes by now) and we rang in the new year on the highest point in Toronto watching the fireworks downtown and had no worries of the Y2K bug.

So, here is a recap: I had a good birthday and turned 26, I went to a lot of shows (in several different States and cities), I went to Toronto a lot, I was busy with school and I hope 2010 will be much better and I can be more positive with my future.

Happy New Year.

The Summer That Wasn’t.

008.1At least that’s what I hear about Toronto this past summer. I feel for you and your cool weather. In fact, I wish that we could have switched weather forecasts and I would have gladly lived in the rain and cool over the heat, humidity and all around sweatiness.
I’m disappointed with myself and my lack updating for the past forever. It seems as though if I don’t have my computer right there with me as soon as I realize I have something to write about I get lazy and put it off. Trust me, there has been a lot to write about too. Including a random box of 80s porn WITH photos that I still need to scan and mock. I will get to it. Oh the mullets and the tight pants! Fluorescent pink!
I’m spending my Labor Day weekend alone watching Law and Order SVU marathons. I’ve been watching all day. I managed to pull myself away for 2 hours to spend more of my life on school supplies. I’m barely making it through writing this entry because I keep getting distracted by the show.

These are the pluses about being alone this weekend:

-Party at my house! Ok not really.
-Pancakes for dinner and no guilt trips! Canadian syrup only.
-Sleeping on the couch and not caring if a tank top strap stretches out.
-Sleeping on the couch with the tv on.
-Using the bathroom with the door open (excited about this one).
-Do the dishes right away? Nah!
-Midnight yoga (p90x style).
-LAW AND ORDER MARATHONS (Most recent episode I’m watching).

I might has well do an Al Bundy and scratch, burp and hand halfway down the pants.

Last weekend I was in Toronto and I went to the CNE. My 1.5 year old niece was thrilled. We played the duck game, and although she kept picking the ducks, she still won a prize.games

I also did a photo shoot with Sean Ryan during one of my trips home. It was fun and relaxed. I felt pretty. You can click here for one of the shots. I hope I get to move with him again.

I’m getting completely sucked in to this episode. I will keep in touch. I’m sure this school year will bring lots of stories, visa troubles, money issues and all around stress. Did I mention I’ve missed out on a trip to my lovely dream city of San Francisco right now? I want.

No titles for this.

I just miss my mommy.

“Vacation” aka “Temporary Change of Setting”.

Dan Anaka 2009

Dan Anaka 2009

It has been a few weeks since we last met, WordPress.

I’ve done some traveling. “Traveling”. I would love to call it a vacation, but going home is never REALLY a vacation. There are always a billion obligations. Doctors appointments, family functions, financials, tattoo appointments….. um, family functions….? I had 2 weeks plus a day or two. The first week Brian made an appearance. He had some things he needed to do on the opposite side of town as my parents so I spent a good chunk of time on the TTC. I’ve missed you, TTC and your not being New York City Transit. We spent a lot of time with our friend who is the owner of Punk Medics, Vegan Skin Care extraordinaire. It was very hot, fairly humid and a little bit rainy. I learned a little bit about the Junction. I also got home just in time for the city workers strike (this includes all garbage pickup), Father’s Day, PRIDE, Canada Day festivities and a few down pours where I was, indeed, caught without an umbrella. That sums up the first week. Don’t get me wrong. I LOVE going back to Toronto. I love my family. I love my friends. I love having the chance to see them and go wander the city. I have some amazing times back home. I get to see my niece grow, my dogs, my parents and grandmother… It’s great to feel comfortable in my surroundings.IMG_2959

The second week involved lots of feeling tired, nauseous and weak. I’m not sure where that all came from but I’m sure it had something to do with the heat and the strong drugs I took during my first week due to a few infections I had going on that I didn’t really know about. I had a day to myself where I wandered and took photos, and the rest was filled with seeing my niece. I was able to get in a few hours on my sleeve thanks to my very, very dear friend Derek Lewis.

The same night I worked on my arm Derek, and the rest of Toronto, received terrible news of the sudden passing of EVERYONE’S friend, Martin Streek. There are several heartfelt obits and blogs floating around the net. Take a look, they will inform you more than I ever could.

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